So here are my rules.
1. Don't be easy, but don't be a prude.
Sounds easy right? wrong. There is a very fine line that you need to flirt with between slut and prude, one that is not easy to find, but you can do it I have faith. So you go out with this guy for the first time, he took you to dinner, and actually paid! He would not even let you leave a tip! Homerun, keep this one around for a little while. So you get in the car and he has those " I am so gonna get laid eyes" shoot that one down right now. Before this goes any further ask yourself a few questions.
Do you see another date happening?
If yes, then give him something to make him come back! More in a bit.
If no, you can either screw him and move on(slut move) or you can just make out a little bit.
Have you slept with/fooled around with anyone he is close with? Fraternity brother, roommate, blood brother etc?
If yes you might as well sleep with him as everyone will already think of you as a slut. Boys gossip worse then any one I have ever met.
If no then again give him something to remember you by.
Ok so you want to see him again, and you have not been involved with any of his close friends. Time for phase two. It's your choice here, do you want to get hot and somewhat heavy in his car? Perks are it's hard to move around in so that will limit how far you go, but there is always the risk of cars. The second option is one of your places. Here there is a number of soft surfaces, condoms, and of course the risk of roomies. Either way you should not go much farther then the belt line. By all means suck face till he cows come home, and if he is a good kisser, you might give him a short time pass to the land of Chi-Chis. If you are feeling adventurous and/or you are going to have coffee with your gay that next morning you should do a little recon. work on what he is packing. Trust me your gay will ask. Be sly about it, don't just drive straight to happy town! Meander, take the scenic tour as you will. Use your hands to check out his physique, how are his arms, his pecs? Does he have abs? How many abs? Answering this questions will keep you a little more focused on the task at hand. Now you can go to Happy Town, but only the boarder. Rub through his jeans, that should give you a some what clear idea of what he is working with. Give him a few mins, of this. This will give his a reason to come back, but also will give you a chance to test his endurance. If he goes while you do this, just leave. Never come back.
So how to stop fun time? I know this part sucks, but be blunt with him. Don't do the"oh my its late" etc. That just sounds like you want to leave because this is no fun. Try something a long the lines of "So I would love to continue, but it I sleep with you my Gay will judge me hardcore. Let's go out again and maybe if you are good I will not listen to my Gay(as if you would ever do something so stupid. BECCA.)" Stay strong, you have given him plenty to think about when he gets home. Step up another date, and get his blood pumping one more time before you leave. If you can straddle him, this is always hot, and bite his lip after kissing him. The best is if you do this in the car, and then get out his door. Its hot and sexy this way. If you are in one of your rooms, kiss his junk in his jeans. A little promise for next time! Trust me even if you do not suck cock, this will get him excited at the idea that you might.
Thats all folks for this week. The second date will be next week!
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