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I know you are all sitting on the edge of your seats, waiting to know what the sexiest thing you can wear. But not to disappoint you, it's not really just one thing, nor is it a piece of clothing, it's actually a mindset.
Almost every self help book, or fashion women's magazine has talked about this in parts, what makes this one different is two things. First, it's because I am awesome. Secondly I have combined a few different ideas into one overall mind set.
The Sexiest thing you can you wear, is confidence. But its more then just being confident, it's accepting and being comfortable with how you are. Being sexy is completely a mind set, a confident and comfortable woman can make even a burlap sack look sexy. The first part of this new mind set is confidence, confident that you are a smart sexy woman, that any man would kill to be with. If you can't be confident then Fake it till you Make it! Always stand up straight, make eye contact, and stride with purpose and passion. It is surprising how much the way a person walks, changes how people view them. I am not saying you need to do a runway strut everywhere you go, but if you walk with a purpose, but not rushing you will be amazed. Also when walking straight up, do not hold your nose up in the air, thats A. tacky, B. Rude, and C. makes you look really snobby. Snobby does not equal hot.
The second part of this new sexy mind set is be comfortable. No, this does not mean bust out the sweat pants, and oversized teeshirts. This means be comfortable in your own skin. Next time you get out of the shower, or you get dressed I want you to stand completely naked in front of the mirror. A. Stop complaining about how you are not going to do this, and B. stop shaking in fear of seeing yourself naked, that defeats the point. You should do this everyday, get comfortable seeing yourself naked. Learn to accept and love everything about it. Instead of bitching about that mole on your butt that looks like a bug, think of it as a butterfly or a heart etc. I know this sounds wicked cheesy but you will be surprised how well it works, and how the next guy to see your mole will think its cute that you think it looks like a butterfly.
So now you have seen yourself naked, and you are getting used to it. Good now start loving that body. If there is one thing my girls all have, it is confidence, in varying degrees. They are all built in different ways, and have things they would like to change, but they have learned to love other parts of their body.
So who cares if you are built like a South American Fertility Goddess? Did you miss the most important part of that phrase "GODDESS" People like you were worshiped all over world for years!
Or who cares if you are built like a twig, drink a protein shake and enjoy your slim figure, some guys are all about that look!
To recap. Walk with confidence, Love your body no matter what you think is wrong with it. Learn to love your body naked in the mirror. Embrace your body type, and make it work for you! Fake it till you Make it! And lastly do not be afraid to make the first move, most guys like this!
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